My collection of engraved picture frames, costume jewelry and beer glasses has tapered off now that my friends are married. While seemingly appropriate gifts for bridesmaids, they become redundant after a group of friends makes the rounds in each other’s weddings. Rule #1: Keep it fair: Get the same gift for everyone. Rule #2: Once you’ve decided on a price range, pick something they can truly use after the wedding (a challenge, yes – but impossible, no). Here are some suggestions: silk pashminas ($10, Bijoux Turner), monogrammed canvas totes from LL Bean ($17.95 and up), gift certificates for manicures ($15-$30), ipod shuffles ($59), sterling silver bead earrings (Tiffany, $100).